I’ve memorized that phrase by heart
so tell me, I need to know it
when do the good things start” —You’re a Good Man Charlie Brown
Today was a long day. I picked up Amber and we had our sister bonding day by watching Easy A and going to the candy store for Jon’s birthday present. On the way home I almost ran over a cat. Then I went shopping, I hit 3 stores in 45 minutes and bought a couple things. Bible study afterwards with Kim and Tracey. Tracey thought I was crying, when really my nose was runny due to the perfect positioning of the ceiling fan. When I got home it was a little pass 8 and I headed to Jon’s party where I was asked to rap on the spot, but I didn’t. I saw many familiar faces and we jammed to Disney Songs- and now I have a jamming partner, yay Ronquillo! Plus I have an amazing friend that I like taking care of anytime they need me. All in all, today was amazing. thank you God [:
and to Christian, Audrey, and Jonathan I hope you guys are settled in.
to Sandra and Patrick take care tomorrow [:
oh and ricky, drive home safely
I miss everyone already. <3.
lols, i know my restaurants then :D
I work for a middle school’s after school program. I see over a hundred kids run around me while I try to sit them down. But yesterday, two kids caught my eye. A boy and girl in the 6th grade. Apparently, they just became boyfriend and girlfriend a few days ago. I never seen them talking or engaging with each other until yesterday. At the beginning of the program, they sat next to each while doing homework. After the little girl finished her homework, she decided to go on the computer. Of course, the boy was not far behind and followed her by sitting in the next computer 5 minutes later. I could hear them talking, but only in a soft voices. Trying to be somewhat intimate with each other in a classroom full of kids. I hear them laughing and giggling over who knows what, but their smiles were so genuine. I could tell that they really liked each other. Later on in the day, they were sitting next to each other in the game room. Some other boys were messing with the girl. She was tough though. She knew how to handle herself by telling the kids to back off or she would slap them. But the boyfriend, poor guy, was trying the talk to the other boys to leave her alone calmly, but she just went all off. From then on, he just put his arm around her chair and stayed quiet. Which is totally funny because he is usually a hyper and really talkative.
Kids change around the people they like. They can become super annoying to get attention. They can become sweet to win the others hearts. They can become shy and timid trying to not to get in their way. It’s interesting to watch all of these kids love lives unravel before my eyes.
Now, still on the topic of puppy love, yesterday I found out my youngest sister got asked out to homecoming by her new boyfriend. This guy went all out. He got the sax section. He got the “She Was Mine” song by AJ Rafeal. He got the white button up shirt and black tie. He got the rose. He got the poster with lyrics and hearts on it. I saw a video of it and it was romantic and cheesy. In a good way of course. The greatest/funniest part was Cassey’s reaction. She was shocked and just fell into his arms. And then later at home, she couldn’t stop talking about it. She was literally beaming. Smiling from ear to ear. It was pretty cute.
These stories of puppy love… it just remind me that the elements that make puppy love so special should be molded into actual lifelong love relationship. Kids change when they are around the people they like. Now, as adults, I’m not saying you have to change. I’m saying we are going to change. People grow up. But when you are in real relationship, you must be willing to change together. And change for the better of not only the relationship, but more importantly, for yourself. Because if you’re are only changing your ways for only the significant other, you are losing a part of yourself. Life throws you devastating blows, but if if you willing to face them and change to handle the situation together, it won’t hurt as much.
And the silly little romantic moments should never get old. Having huge cheesy smiles on your face should never get old. Relationships should have surprises and adventures and romance and creativity and laughing and happiness.
Lastly, puppy love gives you this little feeling. A little warmth in your heart whenever you see them, talk about them, hear about them. This small fire should never go out because that is what is going to keep you warm whenever your relationship gets a little cold.
I know I am no expert. But just hearing these stories and watching silly little sparks of love teach me about new elements about how to love and I guess I wanted to share them with you too. One last thought, don’t be afraid to get that person you can have these feelings or do these actions for. Love is worth it. And it all begins with puppy love, even if that little love grows gradually or comes at you fast.
Sometimes my sister can actually right some pretty neat stuff. Too cute. The bold part is my favorite! :)
super cute [:
L’esprit de escalier: (French) The feeling you get after leaving a conversation, when you think of all the things you should have said. Translated it means “the spirit of the staircase.”
Waldeinsamkeit: (German) The feeling of being alone in the woods.
Meraki: (Greek) Doing something with soul, creativity, or love.
Forelsket: (Norwegian) The euphoria you experience when you are first falling in love.
Gheegle: (Filipino) The urge to pinch or squeeze something that is unbearably cute.
Pochemuchka: (Russian) A person who asks a lot of questions.
Pena ajena: (Mexican Spanish) The embarrassment you feel watching someone else’s humiliation.
Cualacino: (Italian) The mark left on a table by a cold glass.
Ilunga: (Tshiluba, Congo) A person who is ready to forgive any abuse for the first time, to tolerate it a second time, but never a third time.
never heard of “gheegle”
This is the real deal. Try ignoring it, and the first thing you’ll notice is having a horrible day starting tomorrow morning … and it only gets worse from there.
ARIES - The Aggressive Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny.. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, and family is very important to an aries. Aries are known for being generous and giving. Addictive. Loud. Always has the need to be ‘Right’. Aries will argue to prove their point for hours and hours. Aries are some of the most wonderful people in the world.. 16 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
TAURUS - The Tramp Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight. Fight for what they want. Can be annoying at times, but for the love of attention. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. They can be self centered and if they want something they will do anything to get it. They love to sleep and can be lazy. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
GEMINI - The Twin Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners. Very Good at confusing people… Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Geminis will not take any crap from anyone. Geminis like to tell people what they should do and get offended easily. They are great at losing things and are forgetful. Geminis can be very sarcastic and childish at times and are very nosey. Trustworthy. Always happy. VERY Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
CANCER - The Beauty MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. A Cancer’s Love is one of a kind.. Very romantic.. Most caring person you will ever meet in your life. Entirely creative Person, most are artists and insane, respectfully speaking. They perfected sex and do it often. Extremely random. An Ultimate Freak. Extremely funny and is usually the life of the party. Most Cancers will take you under their wing and into their hearts where you will remain forever. Cancers make love with a passion beyond compare. Spontaneous. Not a Fighter, But will kick your ass good if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to! 12 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
LEO - The Lion Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Usually happy but when unhappy tend to be grouchy and childish. A Leo’s problem becomes everyone’s problem. Most Leos are very predictable and tend to be monotonous. Knows how to have fun.. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Very predictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
VIRGO - The One that Waits Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word.. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. A pushover. Loves to gamble and take chances. Needs to have the last say in everything.. They think they know everything and usually do. Respectful to others but you will quickly lose their respect if you do something untrustworthy towards them and never regain respect. They do not forgive and never forget. The one and only. 7 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
LIBRA - The Lame One Nice to everyone they meet. Their love is one of a kind. Silly, funny and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with…you might end up crying. Libras can cause as much havoc as they can prevent. Faithful friends to the end. Can hold a grudge for years. Libras are someone you want on your side. Usually great at sports and are extreme sports fanatics. Very creative. A hopeless romantic. 9 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
SCORPIO - The Addict EXTREMELY adorable. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Will try almost anything once. Loves to be pampered. Energetic. Predictable. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want.. Attractive. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Loves to party but at times to the extreme. Loves the smell and feel of money and is good at making it but just as good at spending it! Very protective over loved ones. HARD workers. Can be a good friend but if is disrespected by a friend, the friendship will end. Romantic. Caring.. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found.. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. A loner most of the time. Loses patience easily and will not take crap. If in a bad mood stay FAR away. Gets offended easily and remembers the offense forever. Loves deeply but at times will not show it, feels it is a sign of weakness. Has many fears but will not show it. VERY private person. Defends loved ones with all their abilities. Can be childish often. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in bed..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying. 4 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Grouchy at times and annoying to some. Lazy and love to take it easy. But when they find a job or something they like to do they put their all into it. Proud, understanding and sweet. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to win against other signs especially Gemini’s in sports. Likes to cook but would rather go out to eat at good restaurants. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind, loves being in long-term relationships. Can be clumsy at times but tries hard. Will take on any project. Proud of themselves in whatever they do. Messy and unorganized. Procrastinators. Great lovers, when they’re not sleeping. Extreme thinkers. Loves their pets usually more than their family. Can be VERY irritating to others when they try to explain or tell a story. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter but will Knock your lights out.. 2 years of bad luck if you do not forward
PISCES - The Partner for Life Caring and kind. Smart. Likes to be the center of attention. Very organized. High appeal to opposite sex. Likes to have the last word. Good to find, but hard to keep. Passionate, wonderful lovers. Fun to be around. Too trusting at times and gets hurt easily. VERY caring. They always try to do the right thing and sometimes gets the short end of the stick. They sometimes get used by others and get hurt because of their trusting. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good sense of humor!!! Thoughtful. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. Good friend to other but needs to be choosy on who they allow their friends to be. 5 years of bad luck if you do not forward.
1-3 people= 1 minute of luck
4-7 people= 1 hour of luck
8-12 people = 1 day of luck
13-17 people = 1 week of luck
18-22 people = 1 month of luck
23-27 people = 3 months of luck
28- 32 people = 7 months of luck
33-37 people = 1 year of luck
38 and more = a very lucky life
the bad luck part is stupid, but i’m reblogging purely because of how scary accurate this is.
mine was spot ON.
I’m not a Tramp? Aha.
I’m not a tramp either. How the hell is wanting long relationships trampy? HA! I love my use of vocabulary. “Trampy.”